Sunday, November 27, 2011

Morning Run



It was a wet, miserable morning for a long run today.  I ran 8 miles but not without company.  Two miles into the run I passed a farmhouse, and this white dog, ran out to meet me, and next thing I know he's running by my side.  I said, "go home boy this is a 8 mile hilly run in the rain, and I have 6 miles to go, and worst of the hills still lie ahead."  But he would have none of it.  He ran right with me at the heel or slightly in front, glancing to make sure I was still there on occassion.  He looked to be in good shape, but running 6 miles when you're not trained for it is hard, no matter what speicies you are, and his 4 legs don't work as good for long distance as my 2.  I figured he would drop out after a mile or 2 and return home, but no sir.  He would stop to smell etc, and then run back up to me, expending much more energy then he needed.  By mile 6 he was dropping off the 9 min mile pace I was on.  Unable to keep up, I looked behind to find him hundred yards back, struggling to keep me in sight, his once fluid trot had been reduced to a walk/shuffle on the rolling hills, as fatigue wore on his spindly legs.  I stopped a couple of times, allowing him to catch up, and to give words of encouragement. 


I admired his heart and determination.  He had no idea how far the run was going, for all he knew it could be 1 more mile or 10, but he decided however how far it was, he was all in.  And would run till exhaustion before letting down his new friend.

I had no idea what his name was, or even if he was male.  Had no idea exactly which farm house was his, and not a clue of what to do with him when I got back to the car.  "I'll figure that out when the time comes," was my thought as we made our way through the countryside in a steady rain.  Only the sound of my squishing wet shoes, and his panting for company.



With a mile and half to go, I knew the steepest hill was still ahead, but I didn't tell him.  I slowed to a jog to allow him to gather himself, and as we descended the long hill and bottomed out, the inevitable uphill side came into view.  He staggered at the sight of it.  This hill can be intimidating even for a trained runner. But I knew once at the top, the parking lot would come into view and quarter mile later we're done.  I said, "c'mon boy almost there," and picked up the pace.  He fed of my words of praise and encouragement, and mustered up whatever inner strength he had left for the final push.  I could hear his labored breathing and panting as we ran up the hill.  We crested the top, and took off in a sprint for the finish.   At the end he was breathing 100 times a minute, his tongue hanging, but he was jumping up tag wagging, as if he was proud of his accomplishment.  I used my squirt bottle and shut him some gatorade, and he barked in approval. He sat with me on the church steps and rested while we contemplated our next move, each of us wet as drowned rats, but no matter, the run was over, and I hit my GPS enabled runner's watch, locking the time and distance at 8.52 miles.


We were several miles from his house, so I placed him in the back seat to return him to his home.  I wasn't sure which farm house was his, so I just let him out in the vicinty, confident he'd do the rest.  He was reluctant to leave the car, and I had to tug his collar, he wanted to go with me, but I couldn't do that, because he had a family that would surely miss him, even if they might be boring.  I finally got him out of the car, and got back in driving off, but I could see him in my mirror running behind me.  Despite just running 6 miles, he still had something left to try and stay with his new friend.  Finally he gave up and I went out of sight. Knowing dogs, I bet he comes to the road every morning now to look for the man that took him running that day.  Sadly, I only get out on that course about once a month, but I'll be sure to look for him.

Monday, November 7, 2011

 was recenlty coming out the front door of Walgreen's, when I met a lady, that when seeing me stepped back, gasped, and said, "Oh my," with hand over her mouth.  I looked at her more closely, "I know I know this lady, but can't place her."  Come to find out a old girlfriend from high school days.  Probably 40 years since I last saw her.  We were together almost a year, she left here after HS, and I never saw here again till Walgreens.  She said, "you don't recognize me?'  "Help me."

"It's me, Carol."

It's then I recognized her.  "Ohhhhhh how are you?"

"I'm good, and you're looking good, how are you?"

"I'm great, how long has it been? "

"I dunno, too long, but I'd say 40 years?"

"The last I heard you left here for school, and never came back"

Carol was the second to last relationship before I met Debbie.  Ours was a good relationship, it was serious, and during that time I sometimes thought she might be THE ONE.  But I was young, had things I wanted to do, and was not ready for that.  She told me at the time, if we didn't go to the next level, she was going to school out of state, "the only way I stay in Alabama, you commit to me."  I wanted the status quo, so she basically gave me a ultimatum, and those never sit well with me, and it broke us up.

I was soon in another relationship, and then after that met Debbie, so I really never had time to dwell on it.  But I never ponder the past in that way anyway.

Well give me the short version of the last 40 years," I asked.

"I met a guy in college, got married, had 2 kids, divorced 15 years later.  Married again a few years after that, and left him after 5.  Been single working my career ever since."

"I see, your kids are where now?"

"Both still in Florida, but different cities, they are doing well.  I see your life is good, I use to often visit your website.  A long time ago I googled you, and found your web site.  You always liked riding.  I remember how you use to light up when you told me how you wanted to take off and ride for weeks at a time.  I read all your stories about riding the country.  You even passed within a few miles of my house on your last ride to Key West."

"Really, where do you live?"

"Sarasota, Florida"

"So I did."

I would have liked to say the years had been good to her, but that would not be the case.  Lets just say she did not much resemble the girl I knew in 1975. 

"Do you still live in Sarasota?"

"yes, I'm here taking care of some loose ends, my mother passed away recently, and I sold the house, and I'm here taking care of that."

"I'm sorry to hear that, your mother was a fine lady"

"Thank you"

It was then things became ackward.  I was running out of things to say,  "So how much longer are ya gonna be here?"

"Couple more days"

I nodded my head, "well I better get goin, it was great seeing you, good luck."

"You too Guy.  Next time you come through Florida, let me know."

"Carol, you know I can't do that."  Debbie is NOT going to go go along with lunch with a old girlfriend, even if it was 40 years ago.

"I know, just thought I'd ask"

And on that she turned and went inside, and I went to the car and finished my day.  But the encounter stayed on my mind.

Later that evening, D and I were cleaning up from supper and I said, "guess who I ran into today?"

"WHO?"

"Carol"

"Oh yeah?  Where at?"

"Coming out of Walgreens"

Although she has never met her, she knew about her.  Debbie was the kind that asked about my previous relationships piecemeal.  A little here, a little there.  I never spoke about old girlfriends, unless she brought it up.

"What did she say?"

"Nothing much, brought me up to speed of the last 40 years in about 1 minute"

"She is moving back here?"

"No, her mother had recently died, and she was here tying up loose ends"

"Oh ok"  She quipped nonchantly.

"Is that all?"

"Yeah"

"nothing else?"

"No, why should it be?"

"I dunno, just seems like you'd wanna know more?"

"LOL, you ran into her at Walgreens, is there more I should know?"

"Well no, it was all of a 5 minute conversation"

"Look we've been married 36 years, I'm not concerned about Carol.  I'm use to running into your old girlfriends, way back when it seemed they were everywhere"

"LOL what can I say, I got around"

"oh hush, and dry this off.  I bet none of them know how domesticated you are now"

"Well don't be tellin them, I gotta reputation ya know"

"Riiiiiight, the only reputation YOU have, that of being MY husband"

"really?"

"yep"

"Then I reckon I have a lot to live up to"

And on that we went to watch to TV.